How to quit drinking and find support


Quitting alcohol is one of the most positive decisions you can make for your health. Even for people who wouldn’t describe themselves as having a problem, removing alcohol brings better sleep, more energy, clearer thinking, improved mood, and improved physical and mental health.

Many people who give up drinking are surprised by how much better they feel, and how much of their “normal” tiredness or anxiety was actually alcohol-related. For others, the decision to quit comes from recognising that drinking has become a problem. That is a harder realisation to reach, and if you’re there, you should know that acknowledging it honestly takes courage.

This guide will help you understand your options, whether you want to cut back or stop entirely. Be honest with yourself as you read. The right path to sobriety can vary from person to person, and the wrong one can be potentially dangerous.

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Understanding where you are

Not everyone who wants to quit drinking is in the same situation. There is a difference between drinking too much and being physically dependent on alcohol, and the distinction matters because it changes what you need to do next.

Signs you may have developed alcohol dependence include:

  • Needing to drink to feel normal or get through the day
  • Experiencing physical alcohol withdrawal symptoms when you haven’t had a drink
  • Needing more alcohol to get the same effect
  • Drinking first thing in the morning or throughout the night

Alcohol addiction symptoms include all of these, but also:

  • Drinking to cope with stress or mental health struggles
  • Spending all your time and money on alcohol
  • Drinking creating problems in your relationships
  • Wanting to quit, but not being able to

If these sound familiar, skip ahead to the sections on alcohol dependence and treatment options for alcohol addiction. Trying to quit alone when you’re addicted or physically dependent on alcohol can put your life in danger. If your drinking is problematic but you don’t recognise those signs, the next section may help.

Cutting down or quitting alcohol on your own

For people whose drinking hasn’t reached physical dependence, quitting on your own is possible. Here are some useful tips:

Start by setting a clear goal
Are you cutting down or stopping entirely? Both are valid, but you need to know what you’re aiming for. Before you make any changes, track your drinking honestly for a week. Most people underestimate how much they consume, and you need an accurate starting point.
Identify your triggers
When do you drink? What situations, emotions, or times of day make you crave alcohol? Stress and boredom are common ones, and so are social situations, but yours might be different. Once you know your alcohol triggers, you can plan around them.
Make practical changes to your environment
This starts with keeping less alcohol at home and avoiding certain places or situations in the early weeks. You can also find alternatives for the role alcohol plays in your life, such as other ways to relax, socialise, or manage stress.
Tell someone you trust what you’re doing
Accountability helps, and having someone to check in with can help when things get hard.
Expect it to be uncomfortable, especially at first
The urge to drink won’t disappear overnight, but it does usually get better. If you try and can’t manage, or if you find yourself experiencing withdrawal symptoms, that may mean you need professional support for alcoholism.

Why alcohol dependence is different

When someone has been drinking heavily for a prolonged period, their body adapts to the constant presence of alcohol. The brain adjusts its chemistry to compensate. When you suddenly remove the alcohol, your body struggles to cope.

This is why stopping abruptly can cause alcohol withdrawal symptoms that range from deeply unpleasant to life-threatening. Mild alcohol withdrawal might include anxiety, shaking, sweating, nausea, and difficulty sleeping. Severe withdrawal can involve seizures, hallucinations, or a dangerous condition called delirium tremens that requires emergency medical care.

Alcohol is one of the few substances where withdrawal can potentially kill you. This is why medical observation matters for anyone with significant dependence.

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Treatment options for alcohol addiction

A number of pathways exist for people who want to stop drinking. You can speak to your GP, attend outpatient programmes, or join community support groups. These options help many people, and they may be right for you.

However, these pathways all require you to recover while still surrounded by your everyday triggers. You’re trying to rebuild your life while still living in the environment where your drinking developed. For people with alcohol addiction, this makes an already difficult process even harder.

For people whose drinking has become physically or emotionally dependent, residential alcohol treatment offers the highest level of support. The advantages are:

  • Medically planned alcohol detox with 24-hour care
  • Physical space from situations and stresses that fuel your drinking
  • No access to alcohol during the most vulnerable period
  • Structured days which help rebuild routine and healthy habits
  • Time to focus without work, family pressures, or daily distractions

Alcohol addiction treatment at Liberty House

At Liberty House, we combine medical alcohol detox with a full therapy programme and aftercare support. Detox addresses the physical dependence, while our alcohol rehab programme also helps you understand why you drink and how to rebuild life without it.

When you arrive, we start with a thorough assessment, so we can understand your drinking history, physical health, and personal situation. This helps us tailor your alcohol detox plan to you. The detox phase typically lasts seven to ten days, depending on the severity of your dependence. Our medical team is with you throughout, ensuring you’re as comfortable as possible while your body clears the alcohol. There are certain medications for alcohol withdrawal, but these are given on a strictly case-by-case basis.

Once detox is complete, the therapeutic work begins. This includes individual therapy and group therapy, family therapy, and other approaches designed to help you handle difficult feelings and understand what drives your drinking.

If you’re dealing with mental health issues alongside your alcoholism, our treatment considers both together. Dual diagnosis is common, and addressing only the drinking while ignoring underlying depression or anxiety often leads to relapse.

We recommend a minimum stay of four weeks to give you the best chance of lasting recovery, but longer programmes are available for those who need more time.

What to expect in early alcohol recovery

The first weeks and months after treatment are usually the hardest. Your brain needs time to recalibrate after months or years of heavy drinking, and mood swings, sleep problems, and cravings are normal during this period. We know these can be tough, but they do ease with time.

You may need to make changes to your social life, at least temporarily. If your friendships revolve around drinking, some of those relationships may need to be readdressed or at least paused for a while. This can be painful, but protecting your sobriety has to come first.

Boredom and empty time can be big triggers for relapse. When you’re used to drinking, filling your evenings or weekends, sobriety can feel uncomfortably quiet at first. Having structure helps, so we always encourage new hobbies and regular routines to keep you busy and motivated.

Take the first step to sobriety with Liberty House

If you’re ready to stop drinking and start rebuilding your life, speak to the Liberty House team today for a confidential conversation about your options.